Tuesday, September 25, 2018

How to Maintain a Healthy Relationship?

First and foremost; I am not an expert of how to maintain a healthy relationship. Am I suppose to? I have been dating for the past eight months and a bit. Do you have any suggestions about how to maintain a healthy relationship?

This post may take up to ten minutes to read. Healthy relationship should not always be about the fancy dates at expensive restaurants or travel to expensive locations together. However .. I would like to share with you about my suggestions of how to maintain a healthy relationship.

Healthy relationship always consist of showing each other respect, trusting each other, supporting each other's decisions, caring for each other, being honest to each other, loving each other, missing each other, having patience for each other, and so forth. I hope you do get the idea.
"Good relationships don't just happen. They take time, patience, and
two people who truly want to be together."

I would like to encourage you to think about and answer the following questions either right now or in your own time.

"Are you currently in a relationship?" "How did you first met current your partner?"
"Did you have multiple relationships prior to meeting your current partner?"
"Were you in a relationship prior to meeting your current partner?"

"What were some things that you learned while you were dating other people prior to meeting your current partner?" "What are some things that you have learned about each other so far?"

"Are you and your partner is in a long distance relationship?"
"How long have you and your partner have been dating for?"

I did not thought that I would ever have a long distance relationship. I might have imagine what a long distance relationship would feel like during my teens while I was waiting for a friend to come home from his mission for two years. Anyway .. I have been in a long distance relationship for eight months and I have been doing my very best to do every part that I can do to make sure that my relationship last.

I learned so much while I have been dating for the past eight months. I would like to share with you some major categories that I have learned.

I learned to really get to know each other including hobbies and interests, I learned about how to care for each other, I learned about how to always be there for each other including to be a phone call away, I learned about to be patient continually including the time frame to wait in between flying to visit each other and waiting for each other to become available to talk to each other, I learned about loving each other and so much more.

If you are currently in a relationship, I know that you would have already learned so much during your relationship thus far and you will continue to learn so much as the relationship continues.

That is all from me for now, and I should be posting some time tomorrow at Pacific Daylight time zone. 

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